Where are all the real men?

With Valentines Day coming up I thought I would write something about love.

Society at large can't make up its mind about men. How can a man know he is one when his highest aim is minding his manners? Men: did you ever dream of becoming a nice guy? Ladies: was the prince of your dreams dashing or merely nice? It's about guys standing up and taking on the role as men. Fierce, powerful, protective, passionate men. Girls are messing things up because gender-confused guys have forced girls into becoming the men. Guys have let the girls take control while they just sit back. That's not the way it was designed.

Rules that need/should be followed.

Guys purse it:
If you're too sacred to ask her, then you're not man enough to go out with her. But listen, being scared is not a bad thing. I'm guessing all men get scared when it comes to asking a girl out. Don't expect her to call you. Don't expect her to ask you out. Do something. Be the man. Take a chance. Ask. Hey, no chase, no challenge. No challenge no reason to stay with her.
Girls purse it:
So, girls, sit back and let guys come after you. A guy needs to pursue. Let him be the aggressor and make him want to fight to know the deepest you.

Guys plan it:
Well when you go on a date, have a plan.  It doesn't have to be minute-by-minute schedule of events, but you need a general idea of what's going to happen. Do some advance work too. If something is important to you, you will invest a lot of time in it. If you ask a girl out, you'd better plan the date.
Girls plan it:
Give him suggestions for what you would like. But let him take the ball and do what it takes to make it happen. Don't accept excuses if he never plans anything either. If he isn't willing to plan something for you, he isn't really interested in you.

Guys cover it:
When you ask out a girl, be ready to pay. Plan something that doesn't cost big bank. You gotta pay to play. If she's worth asking out, she's worth doing something that you pay for.
Girls cover it:
The guy has to step it up and reach in his pocket. Girls your job is to suggest new, fun, free or low rent things you can do together, and his job to plan the details. Remember, it's not the cash value but spending the time together that's important.

Guys back off:
give up the pursuit of physical favor and back off. I'm talking about any physical gesture, any pay-off. Guys, it is not your right to take it. Your job as a real man is to guard her body. That means even from yourself. If you play to win, you gotta play the whole game. What she wants is a relationship that will last. Be a man. Take control.
Girls pay off:
Giving you affection to a guy right away doesn't make you more valuable. You just give him a prize without making him fight for it. if you want a guy to know how valuable you are, you have to act like you are valuable.

You have to pursue, plan, and pay in order to get the prize.